Key Traits: Behaves arrogantly and haughtily. Feels superior, omnipotent, omniscient, invincible, immune, and “above the law.” Rages when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted by people he or she considers inferior to him or her and unworthy.
Telltale Sign: Grovel and/or pile on the charm to those “above” them, are abusive to those “beneath” them.
Feels grandiose and self-important: exaggerates accomplishments, talents, skills, contacts, and personality traits to the point of lying; demands to be recognized as superior.
Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation – or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious.
Feels entitled. Demands automatic and full compliance with his or her unreasonable expectations for special and favorable priority treatment.
Telltale Sign: Diabolical Narcissists hate to HELP OTHER PEOPLE and will either refuse, or will do it and make sure everyone involved knows how put out they are, and what a massive condescension has been effected. This is a derivative of their inability to love.
Amusingly, when people STOP asking Diabolical Narcissists for their help, they resent it, and complain bitterly.
They are “interpersonally exploitative”, i.e. uses others to achieve his or her own ends.
They are DEVOID OF EMPATHY, unable or unwilling to identify with, acknowledge, or accept the feelings, needs, preferences, priorities, and choices of others. They simply do not care.
Their relationships are self-serving, shallow, and superficial. They have no genuine interest in others and only feign it when it serves their purpose.
They are constantly ENVIOUS of others and seek to hurt or destroy the objects of his or her frustration. They are wildly insecure and fragile.
They are conscienceless, shameless, authoritarian, contemptuous/disdainful, hypercritical, cruel, callous, wanton, hyper-flirtatious/seductive, hyper-sensitive (even fantasies of being offended), incapable of self-deprecation, pessimistic, religious/liturgical fetishists, secretive (from grandiosity), stingy, self-contradictory/hypocritical, and inveterate facile liars.
They are masters of gaslighting, projection and scapegoating.
Projection is accusing others of having the character flaws and/or committing the crimes that the Diabolical Narcissists are themselves committing.
GASLIGHTING is a form of mental abuse in which information is twisted or spun, selectively omitted to favor the abuser, or false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity. Instances may range simply from the denial by an abuser that previous abusive incidents ever occurred, up to the staging of bizarre events by the abuser with the intention of disorienting the victim.
When Diabolical Narcissists run up against a person of sufficiently strong character that is keenly attuned to reality and is thus not susceptible to accusations of insanity, the Diabolical Narcissist then drops into the second and final form of Gaslighting: accusing the victim of being “a bad person.” Public character assassination may follow.
They know the difference between right and wrong. They know exactly what they’re doing.
There is no excuse for evil.
Diabolical Narcissists are human beings that have, by their own free will, chosen to purge themselves of all love (charity) and thus all positive emotions derived from love. Because they are incapable of love, the only emotions they feel with depth are: Anger, Hatred, Envy, and Fear. This is the demonic emotional palate.
Satan, knowing that Christ would incarnate as a Man, pridefully (haughtily) refused to adore God. In this revolt against God, who is perfect Love, Satan utterly rejected and purged himself of ALL LOVE. One third of the angels followed Lucifer, and were cast out, never to see God – never to attain the Beatific Vision. This is the root of their rage. Their entire existence is motivated by spite.
Satan and the demons hate all humans because they exist, are capable of love, and of achieving the Beatific Vision because of the redemptive and salvific work of Christ on Calvary. Diabolical Narcissists are direct analogues to demons and should be thought of as Mercenaries of Hell, looking to crush and even kill the souls of other human beings, out of pure spite.
Diabolical Narcissists are consumed with hatred of others who do not share their miserable nature, that they deem to be “beneath them,” or that fail to supply them with diabolical satisfaction.
Diabolical Narcissists are consumed with envy of people who are capable of love and normal human affection. They are consumed with fear that the reality of their true selves, which they loathe, and their false selves, which they are desperate to maintain, will be exposed.
Diabolical Narcissists are incapable of love, genuine happiness, joy, pleasure, gratitude, empathy, compassion, or sadness. As such, they despise or discredit these normal affectations in others.
Diabolical Narcissists will accuse their “battered and bloodied” victims of being: needy, insecure, self-absorbed, manipulative, emotional blackmailers, because they refuse to believe or accept that other people have genuine emotions and are capable of being hurt.
Diabolical Narcissists are consumed with hatred, most especially for normal, loving, happy, grateful, empathetic people. They derive diabolical satisfaction from attacking, scandalizing, and even killing them – spiritually or suicide.
They hunt and stalk people for suicide.
Diabolical Narcissists identify targets, groom them, and then “devalue” them – turning on them, making them objects of their cruelty, to generate diabolical satisfaction. They know exactly what they are doing, and they are not sorry for it.
Scandal: Any action or its omission, not necessarily sinful in itself, that is likely to induce another to do something morally wrong. Direct scandal, also called diabolical, has the deliberate intention to induce another to sin. In indirect scandal, a person does something that he or she foresees will at least might lead another to commit sin, but this is rather tolerated than positively desired.
Diabolical Narcissists often drive people to despair, lose their faith (if they had faith before), and even descend into Diabolical Narcissists themselves.
Diabolical Narcissism is CONTAGIOUS and VAMPIRIC. Scandal is the transmission vector.
Children are most vulnerable to Diabolical Narcissists, and parents should protect them at all costs. If you have one as a parent, I am very very very sorry.
Diabolical Narcissists are NOT POSSESSED. They have voluntarily taken on the traits of demons. The vast majority of them don’t think about Hell or Satan or anything demonic.
Three things that make a person a target for Diabolical Narcissist rage:
- Telling a Diabolical Narcissist that you love them. They hate and disdain you for it, and at that moment begin targeting you because they know they can hurt you.
- Telling a Diabolical Narcissist what makes you happy or what you are grateful for. They will take it as their “sacred” diabolical mission to take your happiness away from you.
- Telling a Diabolical Narcissist that they have hurt you. Not only do they know they are hurting you, they will do it again, and they will do it harder in order to hurt you more and to prove that they can. AND THEY ARE NOT SORRY.
Diabolical Narcissists often derive far more diabolical satisfaction from “getting away with it” than the actual attack or crime itself. Because they are so often charming and/or powerful, their coterie or subordinates will never confront them, for fear of being the next to come under attack.
Diabolical Narcissists are extremely dangerous to souls. They simply DO NOT CARE about the damage they are doing to others, and even derive diabolical satisfaction from the exercise of their totally unchecked power.
Effeminacy is NOT homosexuality or femininity; it transcends gender. It is a vice against perseverance. Its opposite is VIRILITY. Effeminacy manifests as, in no particular order:
- A pathological refusal to deal with objective reality (intense normalcy bias, self-delusion)
- Hatred of exertion
- An intense aversion to helping others (because helping almost always involves exertion)
- The refusal to voluntarily take on ANY hardship, discomfort, or suffering
- Lashing out at virile people as a defense mechanism
- Need for human respect
- Hypersensitivity, easily “triggered”
- Intense judgementalism and hyper-criticality
- Inordinate attachment to money – tightfistedness, stinginess
- Intense selfishness and self-absorption
- Incessant criticizing and complaining while refusing to act or charitably instruct others
- Shunning personal responsibility, most especially taking responsibility for the actions of others or for no-fault accidents
And because iniquity hath abounded, the charity of many shall grow cold. Matthew 24:12
Those who know about and understand Diabolical Narcissism, and can recognize it when it enters their life and even attacks them personally, have a far better chance of surviving it and not becoming Diabolical Narcissists themselves. The key is discrediting Diabolical Narcissists. “I know what you are, and you can’t hurt me.”
Discovering that someone you love is a Diabolical Narcissist can cause scandal and disappointment so intense that a person will despair and fall into the chasm of Diabolical Narcissism themselves as they purge themselves of love in order to eliminate the pain. Do not do this. Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Acknowledge what they are, namely BAD PEOPLE, and stay away. Especially if they’ve targeted you, stay away. Because they will get your attention and try to make amends, just to hurt you again. They do not stop.
It is possible to forgive someone AND sever the relationship in this world. Scripture is replete with admonitions to sever or cut off relationships. Pray for them unceasingly. Pray for a happy death. Pray for them to make any act of contrition, because God can work with anything.
DO NOT LOOK BACK.
Remember, their only real emotions are anger, hatred, envy, and fear.
Scapegoating keeps people from seeing the big picture and falling into diabolical narcissism themselves. It’s a massive tactical blunder. No one person or people are responsible for all the evil in the world. But evil people scapegoat, and this is a key feature of them.